From: Robin Hanson (rhanson@gmu.edu)
Date: Fri Dec 03 1999 - 12:38:58 MST
Glen Finney wrote:
><< It seems to me that you are denying that the phenomena of limerence is
> associated with any degree of fooling oneself about anything.>>
>
>No, there may indeed be some degree, but I would say that it can vary wildly
>from 0% to 100%. My question to you is this; how do you determine whether
>someone is fooling themselves about being in love or actually is in love?
I don't want to try to tell you how to tell on a case by case basis who
is fooling themselves about what. I just claimed that on average people
in love do systematically fool themselves about several things. Surely you
are familiar with the standard literary scenarios of the foolishness of
those in love, and those who were fooled by others who acted like they were
more in love than their later actions suggest.
><< More generally, you seem to deny my suggestion that people fool themselves
> into thinking they are more thoughtful, creative, etc. than they are.>>
>
>... So, am I deluding myself into believing I am thoughtful and creative?
I don't really care about you in particular. But there is a vast literature
saying that lots more than half the population think they are better drivers,
lovers, stock traders, etc. than average. Men tend to do this more than women.
Robin Hanson rhanson@gmu.edu http://hanson.gmu.edu
Asst. Prof. Economics, George Mason University
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