Crocker's Rules (WAS: Women, fire...)

From: Eliezer S. Yudkowsky (sentience@pobox.com)
Date: Tue Sep 28 1999 - 08:51:18 MDT


I've always construed the intent of Crocker's Rules as a personal
declaration of personal responsibility for personal reactions. I don't
say: "I can say anything I want to anyone, and if they take offense,
it's their fault." I say: "Anyone can say anything they want to me,
and if I take offense, it's my fault."

This declaration is neither altruistic, nor is it based on expectation
of reciprocity - it is to my advantage to have other people be able to
communicate with me in minimum time, or to communicate unpleasant truths.

Two people operating under Crocker's Rules should be able to exchange
visualizations in minimum time and with minimum effort, so there *is* a
networking effect. We can hope that this mental discipline will
eventually spread, and drive out the sick culture of "manners" and
"politeness" based on social dominance, politics, fear of retribution,
and the desire to avoid trouble.

I do declare myself to be operating under Crocker's Rules, by the way.

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