From: Clint O'Dell (clintodell@hotmail.com)
Date: Wed Sep 01 1999 - 20:27:47 MDT
>You might put it to memory and you might act on that memory but I >doubt it
>would change your mentality.
It is memory associations that create your mentality. Several mentaly ill
people are that way not because of a damaged brain but because they had bad
experiences. What you learn, experience, taught is all part of memory.
Even your movements. Everything is learned and if learning is involvoved
then memory MUST be involved as well.
>It's likely, it makes sense that memories of emotional situations >should
>have greater 'strength' although I have no personal experience >of this
>happening.
Of course it would because you are associating your emotion (comfort level),
with your thoughts (hateful, loving, logical, etc...), along with physicals
(example:tense). The reason you are associating all these things is because
strong emotions create bodily alertness/awareness.
>However, just because it is etched into my memory does not mean it >will
>change my mentality. I might be the sort of person who will >avoid a
>tanned hide at all costs in which case my fathers threats >would work
>because they would change my behaviour (as above), but if >I do not have
>that mentality my fathers threats would never give me >that mentality (or
>alter my programming as I think you were >suggesting).
Not necessarily because there are a lot of memoris (and I mean a lot!) to
consider. A few non-seemingly related memories may not effect your
personality.
>It has been my direct observation (personal experience) in multiple
>situations that strongly entrenched early memories that are mostly
>suppresed (though perhaps acted upon), may be "overcome", if you can >bring
>the memory to the surface so that the conscious mind is aware >of it.
>I would not be able to reverse my programming simply because I >located the
>event that caused it, however, if I find the subconscious >memory I am
>acting upon I can change my behaviour.
Personality IS a behavior!
Simply locating memory to change your thoughts is not what anyone said. Or
maybe I missed that post. What you have to do is make a conscious
connection with the memories. Find something in common and physicaly act to
associate the memories using the connectable concepts you find between the
memories. Remember sound, sight, touch, taste, movement, and thoughts all
are controlled by memory.
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