Re: Having a life

From: Eliezer S. Yudkowsky (sentience@pobox.com)
Date: Sun Jun 27 1999 - 01:24:37 MDT


"Eliezer S. Yudkowsky" wrote:
>
> I don't demand that others live as I do. The wise choice for a
> Specialist isn't necessarily the wise choice for anyone else, even a
> different kind of Specialist. But if people start going all
> "oh-I'm-wiser" on me and spouting back the wisdom of the sages as seen
> on TV, then yes, I'm going to be annoyed. I am tired of a society that
> teaches us to believe that we'll fail at changing the world, that we'll
> fail at self-sacrifice, and that we'll shatter ourselves if we try to do
> our best.

And as long as I'm dispelling cultural myths masquerading as sage wisdom:

* Saying to yourself: "I'm just having fun as part of a greater goal,
not because of any intrinsic significance" does NOT diminish the amount
of fun. Thought is NOT the enemy of pleasure.

* You can consider the possibility that life is meaningless, or that the
Earth is going to be dissolved into a puddle of goo, or that everything
you try is just going to make things worse, or your own nonexistence,
and it will NOT fuse your brain into a lump.

* It's possible to believe that the world has only a 30% chance of
surviving to Singularity, and STILL have a sense of humor. In fact, I
believe I've posted more original humor to this list than any three
other individuals.

* Devoting your life to a Cause is NOT the exclusive province of the
young, except maybe in the second half of the twentieth century. (Sigh.
 What happened to the 1850s?)

* It is possible to keep everything in perspective, thinking of six
billion people or a hundred billion galaxies or entire Alpha Lines,
WITHOUT either overloading your brain or being crushed by your own
insignificance. It's just numbers.

* You don't have to set aside even an infinitesimal fraction of your
life for yourself. Any fun required to keep heart and soul together can
be performed out a sense of duty and it will STILL WORK.

* If you don't expect loneliness, you won't be lonely. If you don't
conceive of altruism as a huge self-sacrifice, it doesn't require
willpower. If you don't focus on the television-potential drama of your
choices, there's nothing agonizing about them. If you don't believe
you're a martyr, YOU AREN'T A MARTYR.

If I choose to live my life for the Singularity, nobody has any right to
demand that I live it for myself.

-- 
           sentience@pobox.com          Eliezer S. Yudkowsky
        http://pobox.com/~sentience/tmol-faq/meaningoflife.html
Running on BeOS           Typing in Dvorak          Programming with Patterns
Voting for Libertarians   Heading for Singularity   There Is A Better Way


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