And, really, the entire phenomenon of looking at society through a
certain neuro-linguistic model is widespread--as I embarked upon
homeschooling my children, I remember being appalled at other young
mothers who were enchanted that the state had generously taken the
burden of registering their children into school from them, sending the
forms home fait accompli! Expectations, assumption, all built upon
laziness of mind, fear of responsibility. So the question is whether
the language is the key or the essential assumption that "I don't have
to make this decision or that choice as it has been predigested by those
who know".
-- Carol B. Low, Psy.D. http://pobox.com/~center-for-conscious-living/