Yes, it is. A natural consequence of the fact that you are evading
a plain reality that independence is an irreducible prerequisite of
sovereignty. You want the goodies--room, board, net access--but you
won't accept the conditions they put on them. You're not acting
like a sovereign, you're acting like a child.
If you want legal help for genuine threats from your parents, all
you have to do is accept the conditions of that help--acceptance of
the American legal system. If you want to force your parents to
recognize you as an emancipated minor, you have to convince a judge
(an official of /their/ sovereign) to sign the order. If you want
help from other sovereigns, tell us what you have to offer for it.
Will you clean my house in exchange for room and board? Will you do
backups on my computer in exchange for net access? TANSTAAFL!