> Is there good reason to be arrogant on the net and not in person,
> when you are ashamed of that behavior? ... Do you find that
> "the real you" is the net-arrogant person, or the more mild-
> mannered one?
Who said anything about being ashamed? I find it effective and
empowering to be an arrogant loudmouth. I think both of those
aspects of my personality are "real", just used for different
circumstances and different goals. In face-to-face encounters,
it is less effective--which is probablywhy traditional politeness
evolved the way it did. I can change my image face-to-face
sometimes as well. Perhaps I acquired that skill for the poker
table and just carried it further here.
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