Re: Controlling the male sex drive

From: Dave Sill (dave@sill.org)
Date: Mon Jun 28 1999 - 09:31:09 MDT


Doug Jones <random@qnet.com> wrote:

> Have you asked your wife how *she* feels about this?

No. I'm just gathering information at this point.

> I *don't* see this as a problem at all.

Good for you, but that doesn't help me, does it?

> Just think of it as good sweaty fun noisy exercise that will extend
> your life- very extropian indeed. What you probably need is better
> sex, not less ;)

I didn't say I didn't enjoy sex. I said I didn't like being dominated by my
hormones. I'm a happily married man (18 years). If I could flip a switch and
not have to evaluate every female I see as "doable" or not--even though I
have no intention whatsoever of actually "doing" her--I'd be happier than I
am now. If I could see a pretty woman and not stare at her, that'd be great.
If I could concentrate on the task at hand in the presence of women, rather
than fantasize about them, I'd be happier.
 
> As for not siring more kids, just get a vasectomy as I did a little
> while ago- just keep the icepacks on there for a few days and you'll
> do fine...

Again, that's not the point. I'm aware of the contraception options. The
point was that since I'm done with the reproductive stage of my life, I
wouldn't mind being done also with the basic urges that are programmed into
me to encourage me to reproduce. I.e., I'd like to be in better control of
my mind and body.

Surely that's Extropian.

-Dave



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