From: Brian Phillips (deepbluehalo@earthlink.net)
Date: Thu Jun 14 2001 - 14:38:24 MDT
From: "Olga Bourlin" <fauxever@sprynet.com>
Subject: Re: Godhood vs Children
<I'm all for gender equality, and I know there are laws unfair to men. I
wonder why more men don't lobby for more equal laws (for men) and more equal
responsibility (for women) - I wish they would. In any case, there are
women with integrity who wouldn't take advantage of a man - even if they
could.>
LOLOLOLOLOL!!!
Reeeallly. Let's me just weigh in here. It is virtually impossible to marry
a woman these days with the near certainty that (barring male infidelity,
or domestic violence, or a dramatic psychological change in the guy)
you will be able to bury them, or they bury you. The only caveat
here is if one chooses an extremely religous female which carries
it's own liabilities. This is a rule of thumb..but it's generally true.
Now.
When you have intelligent young men who are deeply romantic,
love children, and have great amounts of solid nuclear family
background....and they coldbloodedly decide to opt for sperm
storage and a vasectomy, and a life without matrimony....
something serious is happening. It's arguable that so-called
"male dominance" in past centuries was an entirely selfish act.
And many men reaped the violence that comes from violence.
And now the women can have some of the same feast.
So if there ARE some "women of integrity" out there (and I
mean relationship integrity..not professional or intellectual integrity)
let them ruminate on this....
If the women's lib activists are so very right...and if the patriarchy
is such an evil thing....perhaps you'd like to let THEM be the
fathers to your children. oops. gene game over. you and your
"sisters" just guaranteed the brightest most foresighted males will
attend to matters where female whim (which has always been
a love/hate object for the male of the species anyway) has no
bearing. Instead of being loyal husbands. Instead of being
fathers of any sort. Sort of the joker in the deck of love.
The mort-gage (dead hand) of present judicial environment
and familial abuse statues make marriage a Very Bad Idea.
Women who bemoan this have only their own gender to
blame. ::shrug::: Think of it as the gender conflict equivalent of
someone who, declining to vote for a corrupt government,
simply votes with their feet...and leaves the game.
single,
Brian
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